Success Unlocked

How Social Circles Affect Our Success

Dr. Adrienne Shnier Episode 95

In today's episode, I want to share insights from a recent coaching call where we discussed a common challenge: dealing with changing social circles while striving for personal and professional advancement. This particular conversation stemmed from a member in our Mastering Academic Applications program who expressed a dilemma about a group of friends whose goals seemed to be misaligned. Join me as we explore strategies for planning for the future and choosing friends who align with your positive growth.

Navigating the Social Landscape: Balancing Success, Friendship, and Self-Discovery
Social circles, as we all know, can be unpredictable. You can't anticipate that a group today will remain unchanged over the next 5, 10, or even 50 years. People evolve, friendships transform, and it's a journey that we can't entirely plan for. How can we approach planning for the future and selecting friends who contribute positively? Here are some key points from this episode: 

  • As a young person, I've experienced similar challenges - wanting to socialize while dedicating time to studies. It's essential to recognize that studying and achieving success take time, and there's no quick fix. What we do need is consistency, accountability, and a sprinkle of hope. Believing in yourself is key; if it's in your head, it's already yours - just figure out the how.
  • In contemplating success, I encourage you to define what it means to you. For me, it's freedom - the ability to choose.
  • Your current circumstances and friend groups play a role in your current and future success. Consider who you surround yourself with; it's a massive predictor of your journey.
  • Think about the you in five or ten years - the successful you. What choices would that person make today regarding social circles? Align your decisions with your future success. 
  • We all crave acceptance, a biological instinct, but now we're in settings where we decide who has the privilege of being in our lives. Focus on those who support your journey and reciprocate the support.

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